Unfeminized (real) men do not undermine their own gender or sell their boys down the river!
Feminists are winning! They are winning…. not because men are always wrong….not because men suddenly found that feminists are right…. Men are losing because males, once born, are trained (by older males) to place more importance on ….pleasing women/getting the girl…. and “respecting women” which erroneously translates these days to not even being able to tell women the truth anymore…. Men’s egos, reputations and images seem to be the most important thing for men to maintain. Males "must" fit in with other males or else NEVER be a “man” ….so it is erroneously thought.... since if they don’t fit in, the others will think “horrible” stuff about them, which scares the noncourageous. Finally, males stupidly cling to thinking that manhood is inescapably tethered (the "hardwiring" excuse/lazy cop-out) to obsessing over women (getting married and having kids----even if it means he has to end up miserable and broke). The proof is knowing that while indeed having a sexual attraction to females, many men don’t want to do the yellow brick road copycat stuff but do it anyway because they are “supposed” to. They are afraid of the names they will be called if they don't conform. They let this fear dominate them...as if it is the most important thing on earth!
No one will ever succeed in getting men to quit loving women----and that is NOT our goal here----regardless of feminist propaganda. Males and females, evolution/genetically speaking, usually, but not always, have some natural inclinations to gravitate toward one another. According to natural animal behavior, males are to impregnate females. However, the remainder of male behaviors learned once born (lying to women about equality issues, overly competing for their affections such as letting women abandon the equality rule when men let women hit them, and “forgetting” that the superior brain capacity yielding advanced thought processes of Homo sapiens means that “uncontrollable hardwiring” is a myth, and other ridiculous customs and rituals males engage in) are TAUGHT to men. So, in a nutshell, men are losing the gender war because they are trained by older men to lose---all set in motion by the examples men set--- knowingly and unknowingly----as they interact with females----while the boys watch and emulate unknowingly to their own demise. It didn’t used to be that way…before the selfish beast of feminism reared its ugly head…. that is, once life’s survival hardships got easier and women could half-way compete with males.
Not the natural attraction men have for females, but the rest of male mating rituals, MOTIVATEMEN believes is changeable. It will take a while----a few generations to manifest----but clearly is worth it. We do NOT hate women. NOR ARE WE GAY. We love women and have them in our daily lives both sexually and platonically. The difference with us is when it comes to women, we look before we leap. While loving them, we refuse to lower ourselves to letting our love for them actually own, control, and make fools out of us. We control our own destinies. We won’t let our worth be determined by females or by acceptance into male peer-pressured corrals because we determine our own parameters of what it takes to be a man----a real man.
For men to start winning, they are going to have to support change within themselves relative to how they deal and relate to women. While running history backwards is not possible and not a goal of MOTIVATEMEN, (no, we are not endorsing "caveman days") men are going to have to change back to the masculine way of male thought and perspectives. The men in between then and now, just sort of flopped at being true to themselves and respecting the God-knows-it truth, and having the courage and strength to never give in when it comes to women. It seems like the oldest profession wins again (Adam and Eve, among other things) and men buckled when the first wave of female selfishness and obliviousness took hold publicly. From here, it will only get much worse. MOTIVATEMEN is trying to get men to see that they can still love women without selling the farm just to get them to like them back. That is really all we want here. Read our site and you will see that we do not stray far from this basic principle. When men change----finally change---the world will change with it. We hope to have the power, the plan, and the courage to motivate men. That is our goal. And our boys badly need us to grow the balls to fight this fight.
Motivatemen–where we say it like it is!
We bet you are wondering why the word “hate” is the very first thing we talk about. We wish we didn’t have to do this and to be truthful, we don’t. We choose to address the concept of hate because it seems we need to as a method of setting the record straight, to define ourselves instead of leaving that task up to others who would like to stop us as we go about having enough spine to speak the truth as we see it (and substantiate very well), and speak it to both men and women, which we believe is exactly what they are afraid of. They use hate descriptions because they indeed are worried about us for exercising our right to speak, to use our brains that work just fine, and employ the courage to speak out loud relative to the things our wit and intelligence reveals to ourselves—things that we can’t help but see—things we believe most all men (and many women) see but do not have enough gut to stand up and stand out to speak it and especially speak it to women.
Indeed some of you no matter how hard we try, are going to make a severe stretch to try and include us as haters. There is nothing we can say that will change your minds. You have your mind made up already even before you know much about us. You seem to know us better than we know ourselves. (Just like the feminists, perhaps you know everything, huh?). You want to believe we hate. You are trying to imagine that we are haters of women. You are resisting your own inner sense of fairness that you would demand be extended to you if you were in the same position. You refuse to give the benefit of the doubt. You desire to spread false stuff around about us all because you don’t like our message. You want us forbidden to exercise our rights, so you perpetuate the labels unfairly tagged onto us. You are transparent. ( read more)
Of course we are going to talk about love. We will… because we love. We love this earth, this continent, this nation, our state, our counties, our streets, our homes, our families, our boys, our girls, and not that all of us are married with kids, (nor do we have to be in order to be a man), but YES—-we love the women!
In the realm of things traditionally female, we love mothers, sisters, daughters, aunts, nieces, grandmothers, midwives, neighbors, nurses, teachers and all the women who have made our traditional lives historically better and more nurturing. The feminine values and influence impacting our lives has been a wholesome and endearing requirement for our lives to have been completed. Society has been filled with much influence from women that has increased our happiness. We are grateful for traditional women.
Just because we do not espouse the feminists’ synthetic, restructuring plan for everyone everywhere…. with just about everything, does not mean we have disdain for all women. We, as men (and women) have the right to be selective in the kinds of women we hold as dear to us. We do not have to accept the dogma that if you really love women, you must let all of them have their way all the time and abandon tradition with no rules and scrutiny applied whatsoever, especially when we can clearly see problems with our society being degraded by changes unnatural and alien to us.
It is not a requirement of men to place the feelings of women as more important than protecting the stability of families, traditions, and basic life stability. We are not required to lose our senses in order to prove we love women. Yes, we are allowed to be firm.
While some of you will no doubt go on vindictively and stubbornly (and fearful of the truth we tell) clinging to blaming all our investment here on “hating women,” the truth is WE LOVE WOMEN. Just because we do not agree with some of them has nothing to do with our love for them. Our love for them is not daunted by the fact that we do not see eye to eye on feminism. What follows is proof we love them. read more)
OUR DISCLAIMER….and….LET US DO OUR WORK
It is NOT correct that we think all women are alike, not any more than we think all men are alike. Thus, the harsh words made here about women in general, do not apply to all women equally. While definitely applying to the society-destructive, liberal-minded women, our sweeping statements made out of our rightful scrutiny of that gender do not point to women who, of their own volition, commonsense, respect to humanity (including themselves), and decency, refrain from becoming disorderly women.
Surely, there are many women who don’t think that suddenly, in the face of history, that feminists finally found the real truth about everything everywhere for everybody and are thus justified wishing to replace all we know with their synthetic idealistic and radical version. So, if you are a good woman, (said by your own standards but supported by us) then the content on this website does not apply to you. You should not be offended. Instead, you should help us any way you can.
This does not mean you may not share some similarities with all women and even liberal women. The difference is that you have the ability to be more objective and not obsess over yourselves. You realize you are only a part of the world and it doesn’t and shouldn’t revolve around yourselves. You may see some similarities binding most all women, but you are intelligent and unselfish enough to not let yourselves be blinded by your feelings.
Simply put, you remember that successful living takes unwanted and unpopular sacrifices best suited to be done by opposing genders coming together to LOVINGLY best help preserve stability and our species’ overall success….helping the most people most of the time—-a responsible and admirable pursuit of mankind. We simply can’t help everyone’s feelings; there are GOING to be outliers.
You are the kind of women most all men, deep down, wish for. We thank you from the bottom of our hearts. And so will your boys.
Too, it is NOT correct that we think all men are alike. In fact, that is exactly our point with this website; We KNOW all REAL men are not behavioral and philosophical carbon copies of each other. Like in women, there are some strands of continuity among males, but hell no, not all men think, relate, behave, and believe just alike— as if one size fits all. read more